Sarah has a comforting presence even when we’re working on something I don’t feel particularly good at. She gently speaks truth and I always leave feeling calm and uplifted.
-GJ
I totally understand feeling uncomfortable when you feel attraction. I was that awkward girl in high school who couldn’t talk to the cool guys. I also believed that sex outside of marriage was wrong though I masturbated regularly and felt shameful for it. I spent a lot of time feeling at odds with my sexuality. Even once religion didn’t play a significant role for me, I still had no idea how to have the kind of sex and relationships that I wanted.
For much of my life, I would begin to move in the direction of what turned me on, but then I’d freeze. I feared rejection or judgement and I lacked the confidence and self-permission to actually go for what I wanted. (And what would happen if I actually got it?!)
“...if I can change, anyone can.”
With help from some great teachers, I learned how to move toward what I wanted. Now my relationships and sex life looks and feels how I want it to!
The great news is, if I can change, anyone can. There is no such thing as being too far gone or too awkward. I would love to help you find the sweet spot in your life where people start responding positively to you.
My Teachers
Having a teacher is a great idea. I didn’t figure this stuff out all on my own. I had help and these are some of my teachers:
Betty Martin, Wheel of Consent
Celeste & Danielle, Somatica Method
Charles Muir, Source School of Tantra
Richard Heckler-Strozzi, Somatic Coaching
Leslie Rogers and Tawny Thole, Light Dark Institute
Karen Krauss and Amara Charles, Native American Sacred Sexuality (Quodoshqua)
Want to learn more about my philosophy?
You understood beautifully, getting right to the heart of my predicament and conflicted feelings. Your intuition and thoughtful exercises blew me away.
-BT
I feel less lonely now and more confident to engage women.
-LB
Sarah helps me appreciate what I have to offer women. She is understanding and I feel her sincerity in our exercises and conversation.
-GK
Sarah creates safe, non-judgmental sacred space that invites exploration and self-awareness. She has helped open up areas of my life that have been blocked for years.
-NB